Humiliation / Degradation Agreement
A consensual verbal and emotional play agreement
This agreement sets out the terms of consensual humiliation and degradation play between the two adults named below. Both enter into it freely, of their own choice, and of sound mind. It is a communication tool, not a legally binding contract, and it does not remove anyone's right to stop at any time.
- The parties agree which names, words, and themes are welcome in scene, and roughly how intense they go.
- Off-limits. Specific words, slurs, insecurities, body topics, family, work, or trauma areas that are never to be used are listed under hard limits below.
- Anything not discussed and agreed is out of scope.
- It is a scene. The Dominant reaffirms genuine respect and care for the submissive outside of play.
- Watch the landing. The Dominant pays attention to how words are landing and eases off or stops if they cut too deep.
- Strong aftercare. Time is set aside afterward for reassurance, warmth, and reconnection — this matters more after emotional play.
- Discretion. What happens between the parties stays private unless both agree otherwise.
Consent is enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing. Words used in a scene are part of the play, not the truth of how the Dominant sees the submissive. The safe word and stop word below end it instantly, and either party can call a pause if something lands harder than expected.
- Neither party will take part while impaired by alcohol or drugs to a degree that affects judgment or the ability to consent.
- Each party will share any relevant health information — injuries, conditions, triggers — that could affect safety.
- The safe word and stop word are honoured instantly. Using them is never punished and never held against the person who used them.
This agreement is valid from and continues until either party revokes it.
Either party may revoke this agreement at any time, for any reason, by . Withdrawal of consent ends the dynamic immediately and is always respected.